You think a guy likes you because you have glossy lips and a red backless dress on? - Well, this common thought doesn’t make sense at all. Do you want to be his “girl in bed” or his “dream girl”? - If the bed is only what you seek then go ahead with your thought. But, if you want to be his dream girl, then you must read on.
You think a guy likes you because you have glossy lips and a red backless dress on? - Well, this common thought doesn’t make sense at all.
Do you want to be his “girl in bed” or his “dream girl”? - If the bed is only what you seek then go ahead with your thought. But, if you want to be his dream girl, then you must read on.
He is someone who can make you happy but not because you have an extrovert personality. He believes that you have a good heart.
This article is dedicated to the majority of the girls who use to have many boyfriends but end up having no one to hold her with affection when she cries.
Let’s go list wise,
1. Personality:
It is the first one in the list. As mentioned earlier, you can never win a good heart with your glossy lips and backless dress. The secret is to look beautiful yet simple and I don’t mean a sweatshirt and half pant, something that can make you look less classy and more friendly (believe me, I am a guy myself). Be comfortable and laugh. Don’t overdo anything and avoid sophisticated and egoistic attitude. If you want someone who considers you as the best gift by God and feels proud of having you, then you also have to work on yourself according to your expectation. Just be yourself from the beginning rather than adjust yourself afterward.
2. Nature:
The next in the list is a girl’s nature. Guys hate double-faced girls who show his friends the way to her bedroom instead of keeping a respectable and humble friendship. That is big and a very common mistake most girls made. You cannot expect him to support you if you are flirting with every random guy and let almost anyone interfere in your private life. The definition of a Dream Girl to a guy also revolves around the fact that the girl must love and care about his close ones and you can add some seasoning to it by being a little helpful and respecting the few people (boys don’t respect much) in his life. You can be his best friend, his playmate, his soul-mate and almost everything he desires his happiness to be. But if you are using him as a replacement or a simple time pass, then it is only a matter of time before the cannon backfires. Trust me, you don't want to be standing on the receiving end.
Every male loves the charming aspects of a female but later that aspect turns into nagging issues that keep on growing each day of his life. Treating the jokes as an insult is an example. That’s why don’t pretend to be something else, be yourself from the beginning. You can show a little possessiveness but being possessive like a psycho is very repulsive to a guy. Let him do some experiments in and out of his comfort zone. The sooner he starts exploring the stretchability of the relationship, the better the bonding gets. A guy makes you know once the resistance level crosses its limits. He will try to fix it first and then wait for you to change, but at the end of the day, if you still argue and continue accusing instead of correcting your own mistakes, you can kiss him goodbye.
4. Looks:
Be charming and dazzling but don’t lose your natural and simple essence. I mean, you definitely know the difference between a “Wow! Look at her” – makeup and a “Bitch Alert” makeup, don’t you? Showing your body too much can attract jerks but never the one you are looking for. If you prefer to wear a good strapless dress then wear it with elegance. Looking good is not about a sexy dress and flashy makeups with high heels. Always wear a dress which you can carry perfectly. Have you ever wondered why that one girl with big glasses gets the hottest guy? The answer is same, formal look with the touch of elegance. Try a look that shows your originality and avoids showing your body unnecessarily. By following these simple secrets, you can attract the Good Guy among the jerks out there. 
5. Signs:
If you want a particular guy to be in a relationship with then stop avoiding him just like anything. Just because you are a girl, never make him to do all the things or to approach you first. A little generosity from your side will be great for him too. To start with, you can make some eye contact. If he teases you, tease him back. Don’t be rude to him or use hard words, you also need to show some interest back. Instead of texting ‘LOL’ all the time, laugh loudly in front of him. Guys are dumb and they might blush while approaching. A Guy may have a Ph.D. degree in quantum physics but they might not understand that you need a glass of water. Boys are like this, we are like this. You have to admit that the guys are simple, fool and irresistible at the same time. So whatever the reason is behind his confusion, help him to decide what is good for you and let him know what you want. If you can’t compromise with the little ego issues in understanding, then how you can expect your relationship with your guy to be the best thing that can happen to you?
6. X- Factor:
One of the most important things to consider is the way he thinks about you in private. Strictly avoid artificial pout or duck lips, wearing uncomfortable shoes like high heels. Don't use perfumes on an extended level, never drink or smoke in front of him to pretend that you are very cool and the most important of them all, don’t go with any adult approaches initially. Make every moment as much special as you can with a blended recipe of passion and romance following a little tease and mischief and also a little experimentation. At the end, serve it with a sprinkle of naughtiness. Voila!
7. Consideration:
Guys are always the one who protects you but if you can’t consider a bit, how can you expect him to be with you the way you want him to be? Another important and a very common mistake most of the girls usually make is to think that the relation is all around a 'give and take' policy which is NOT! A right guy always thinks from his heart, not from his mind. They are true to their words, loving, caring and honest because a guy with a good heart in his chest will usually have his brain in his pants. Think of it for a second, the guy who has cheated on you was charming, attractive and clever and he did what you want but not what you need. But the right guy will always want to see the happiness in your eyes and the lovely smile on your lips that comes from your soul only. No bargains here! That alone is enough to make him happy. The discussion on this topic doesn’t need much clarification. You already understand the fact that you have many boys around you but at the end of the day, all you need is a little cuddle from someone special who alone can demolish the anxiety of the entire day.
8. Personal Traits:
A man gets attracted towards a hard working girl with high ambitions and an unbreakable focus on her goals. But remember, being independent is a turn on but negative feminism can turn his mood off anytime. You may think that he is interfering in your privacy but does your privacy include cheating? If it is so, then is he doing something wrong? If he is asking you to cover your cleavage and want you to give it a little less exposure, he means that he is being protective. He doesn't want anyone to look at you that way. And finally, be supportive and fix up every disaster that ruins your relationship instead of cursing each other. Take the initiative as fast as possible without waiting for him to take the initiative to sort something out first. The initiatives taken by you will synchronize your relation and release any kind of unspoken or unnecessary tension.
9. IQ:
Guys love logical and rational thinking so they expect their better half to think in the same way. Girls usually jump to conclusion and they give up on guys sooner by being over emotional. But the fun part is when you synchronize to their sense of humor and start to think in the same way, you can never be sad and upset as it will always end up in a win-win situation. Be romantic and a little logical thinking won’t harm you and your relationship as well.
10. Superiority:
It is the last one in the list but not the least one. It is related to the superiority issue of a girl. Girls think that they always do the right things and no one can correct them. If her man tries then it leads to breaking up. The time passes to take the advantage of this superior attitude of an engaged girl and use them to pass their limited time, afterward, they throw that girl like garbage. This costs that girl nothing but her true relationship and the true guy she used to be with. Girls are okay with their male best friends but not comfortable with the female best friend of her boyfriend. Guys are very possessive about their loved one and can’t tolerate anyone else in her close list. A girl needs to understand this as she kept the same feeling about her guy.
Love is all about understanding. If a girl is unable to be understanding and is trying to be superior then it’s always a big NO from a guy.
A state able quote from our entire male community may help you in a better way to understand this. - “Our girlfriend is not a joint venture of business. It is our property. You take that, we make your life a living hell”.
Don’t be the one who cries on the couch and blames others for her own loss. If there is a fault in you or him, fix it rather than feeling sorry or getting over it.
A promise made by a very dedicated lover to his soul mate before she died and left him to spend the rest of his life with dreadful suffering.
“The soul can live without the body but the body can’t live without the soul. To this life and much more to come till eternity. Together forever no matter what.”
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