The teenage crush that crushes everyone.

After a disastrous time, we end up having a broken heart and depressed mind that associates a break-up. A guide to let you know if you are repeating the same 5 mistakes that ruined everyone.

The memorial introduction.

I still remember the day when I first saw my brother's female friend if not a girlfriend. They were friends and I was in my 16. For the first 15 minutes, I can't keep my eyes off her. For the next 15 minutes, I can't stop crushing on her. For a moment, I had completely forgotten that she was at least 8 years older than me and that we two ending up together in the near future is almost something that is next to impossible. While I was being completely naïve in myself, she, being an adult was also taking part in the so far considered, a staged drama act of the adolescence. I, for the moment, was happy and was considering myself lucky to have such credibility that made someone like her fall for me. In reality, it is something that we may describe as foolishness. While she was in a complete gaming mood, I was unable to understand her motive, was planning how our life may end up after our marriage (I was 16 and innocent). After a few hours of stay, she left and I was like, "What just happened?" I never saw her again. After 7 years, she is now the mother of 2 babies. Fancy that!

What just happened?

So, after a detailed research and self-exploration, I came to understand that what happened was not because of me but her. We need to understand that what happened from my part was something that was proportional to my age but what she did was something that can either is proportional to her character or an act of rejection or jealousy subjugated to my brother. Whatever the cause, I ended up being the victim where it took me more than a week to understand what happened. I finally got over it (after a year or so) and started my new life. My studies got affected as well as my mind and to top that, I used to think different ways of meeting her.

Now comes the reasoning

After a few years, making knowledge and logic as my ally, I finally deduced some very important things that needed to clear the crap out of my mind.

·         If the one standing next to you is wrong, make him right instead of enjoying.

·         Teenage life can never come out of infatuation.

·         Curiosity and imagination are good but limited to productiveness only.

·         In the process of time pass, someone may end up death (real or sarcastically)

·         And the most important, the elders must keep an eye and treat them with more friendliness and less ego.

The conducting conclusion

At the end of this article, all that I really want to say is that you don't know what cow dung is until you really step on it. Once you do, you understand that it is something yucky and gooey that you are supposed to avoid.

An advice to the parents (more like a request from the entire troubled youth community)- Treat your 10-21 aged children as friends than parents, you might be surprised to the outcomes.

That's how I look now after my enlightenment.