Why do we fall in love or is it love at all?

The biggest confusion today is between love and infatuation. To make sure that doesn't happen, I have stated my personal experiences in this post about the most over-rated topic of all time.The biggest confusion today is between love and infatuation. To make sure that doesn't happen, I have stated my personal experiences in this post about the most over-rated topic of all time.

"Love is a myth. It's food for the weak and the uneducated. It is a Fairytale material and not part of the reality. While many people say that love is a self-destructing element. There are others who consider it to be a very sacred feeling. Even scientists have failed to decide what love is. I am not an expert on this, though. Although I have seen a few things. This article of mine is going to clear some well-known myths about love. I will also say whether it is infatuation that you are in or not.

The first and the most important question to consider here is, "What is love?"

If you want to understand that statement, you must put it sarcastically.

When life slaps you tight after you fancy something that is beyond your grasp, that's infatuation. When life slaps you again on the other chick, even harder this time, for your persistence, that's when the infatuation turns to love.

We try to understand and laugh our ass out with the above statement. In reality, we must all agree that it is, by all means, correct. Didn't get me? Let me rephrase that.

Remember in junior high, the girl next to you? You used to see her the entire day and took her a decade to understand that. Now that we assume as her innocence but we must also not forget that she was crushing on someone who was at least 8-10 years elder than her. Ask her, she was proud to describe that guy.

Innocence? Agree to disagree.

Remember when you have approached her for the first time? She was busy, lacked interest or had family issues (not referred to the champs and go-getters but to the bookworms and bystanders). Thappaak..... Hurt right? That's the first slap.

After years of persistent efforts, she had finally decided to have mercy and accepted your proposal. You were together for a long time but the reason after years is a date that you missed because you were busy. Something that was hard to avoid. Or you may have ended up falling prey to the most common of all reasons, her 'GUY BEST FRIEND'. You finally see her getting herself succumbed to his friend (sometimes the other way around) and in the end, you guys split up. Thapp-aakk ......... That's the second and the more painful one.

You finally see her getting herself succumbed to his friend or the other way around. In the end, you guys split up and all you can get an answer is the fact that there was nothing between them.
'Thapp-aakk ......... That's the second and the more painful one.
What's more important is the fact that some people have the destiny to receive the third and most painful one of them all, The patch up. After going everything wrong, here comes the slap that rejoins the painful dots. And like it or not, no matter how hard you try, you are gonna end up making the same mistake again.

Not only boys but girls are also victims to bugs that love-bites but if you consider, the count is lesser. So, to all the readers, love are infatuation is inter-related to each other and all you got to do is to understand what and when it is happening.