You don't need a special day to make her feel special. Let her know that she is already special to you.
Want to make her fall in love again? If yes, then this is the place where you get ideas for this Valentine's day. Let her enjoy the butterflies flying again by some new and insane ideas. Afterall, she is your better half and she deserves to be loved by you. Make her feel special and completely blow her mind. How? Simple. Follow the 7 tips below and see the magic happening again your love-life.
1) Write down what you appreciate:
Write a list of qualities that you appreciate about your loved one, and put those words in a card, poem, or a short video of you reading the list. This can be characteristics they possess or things they have done. Include both specific and general examples.
2) Share your favorite memories aloud:
Write a list of six or so of your favorite, most stellar shared memories and retell the events and why they are significant for you.
3) Be a genie and grant a wish:
Put yourself in your partner’s shoes and offer to take on a chore or an activity that would bring a smile or relieve some stress and strain. Do it in a timely manner with a smile on your face.
4) Fall in love again:
Allow yourself to fall in love again. Conjure up feelings of a time you were full of love for your Valentine, and keep your focus there in your heart. Recall the way you felt when you first met. Give up the mental score-keeping of your differences and interrupt all your complaints.Valentine’s Day isn’t all about expensive gifts and flowers. Sometimes what your partner really needs is kind and truthful words, genuine love and quality time with one another. It is truly a time to honor the love you have with one another. Open the lines of communication with your loved one and make this Valentine’s Day all about love.
5) “I love you” everywhere:
With a little creativity, you can make colorful posters expressing your love. Add some “aw” factor with blown up pictures of various stages of your relationship. After you have a variety of pictures and posters ready, place them in unlikely places for continuous surprises for your loved one; at the back of the bedroom door, the closet, the shower, the pantry, under the pillow, etc. But always remember to write it in your heart.
6) Plant a tree:
Invest in something that you and your partner can grow and compliment your love’s growth over the years, too. Consider planting a tree together. Tell your partner that the tree is a symbol of love between you and that you look forward to watching it, like your love for each other, grow over the years.14th of February is just another day in the calendar. I am sure she will appreciate if you think of her on that day as she might be influenced by this social pressure, but you shouldn't let circumstances lead you when it is about love. Being honest and being yourself is the only thing that can work in a relationship.
7) Be yourself and enjoy love:
It’s easy to get stumped about what to do to express yourself for Valentine's Day. Many people express anxiety about the love day. Don't focus on what others’ are going to do or buy to show their honey that they are special. Instead, think of it as an occasion to honor your love, and to convey how much you value, respect, and admire him or her. With that as your goal, celebrating this holiday is actually very easy, and it won't cost you a penny.
You don't need a special day to make her feel special. Let her know that she is already special to you. Love is not something that you show entirely to everyone. It is something that you realize from the heart.
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